Ask Yourself These Questions Until You Find The Answer...
I've never taken the time to ask myself this simple question: Why?
Why Do What You Do?
Perhaps that is the main reason I am in the situations that I put myself in, both intentionally and unintentionally. It may also be the reason as to my lack of 'success' or 'progress.' But at some point, if I plan on changing my situation out for the better I need to address these questions of Why. Each and every one, regardless of derivative.
Questions I Must Ask Myself
Why?
Why Do What You Do?
Why Are You Not Successful NOW?
Why Do YOU Need Success in Your Life?
Why Can't You Attain It Yourself?
If drawing a blank is the result in answering each and every one of these question, then I need to ask myself these questions until I find the answer. The one I will put my whole being behind.
Why Can't You Get It Together?
Why Do You Keep Begging and Borrowing?
Why Can't You Break Out of This Habit?
Why Don't You Find A Better Job/Home/Partner?
Why Are You Not Doing Anything About Your Current Situation?
Why Do You Have No Goals Yet?
Why Are You Not Taking Steps Towards Achieving a Goal?
Why Do You Lack Self-Discipline?
If getting to the answer is causing fearful rejection of the truth, then I need to keep asking these questions until I find the answer. The one that disciplines me, regardless of fear or lack of 'convenience.'
Why Have You Waited/Hesitated/Procrastinated This Long?
Why Now and Not Then?
Why Did You Dig This Hole You're In?
Why Won't You Do Better?
Why Hide?
Why Not Step Out In Faith?
If I'm not coming up with answers on the spot or if they don't seem genuine to me, then I must find a genuine answer; not a convenient one. Those will not get me through my hurdles.
Why Do What You Do?
Why Are You Not Successful NOW?
Why Do YOU Need Success in Your Life?
Why Can't You Attain It Yourself?
If drawing a blank is the result in answering each and every one of these question, then I need to ask myself these questions until I find the answer. The one I will put my whole being behind.
Why Can't You Get It Together?
Why Do You Keep Begging and Borrowing?
Why Can't You Break Out of This Habit?
Why Don't You Find A Better Job/Home/Partner?
Why Are You Not Doing Anything About Your Current Situation?
Why Do You Have No Goals Yet?
Why Are You Not Taking Steps Towards Achieving a Goal?
Why Do You Lack Self-Discipline?
If getting to the answer is causing fearful rejection of the truth, then I need to keep asking these questions until I find the answer. The one that disciplines me, regardless of fear or lack of 'convenience.'
Why Have You Waited/Hesitated/Procrastinated This Long?
Why Now and Not Then?
Why Did You Dig This Hole You're In?
Why Won't You Do Better?
Why Hide?
Why Not Step Out In Faith?
If I'm not coming up with answers on the spot or if they don't seem genuine to me, then I must find a genuine answer; not a convenient one. Those will not get me through my hurdles.
Why Ask These Things? Why Make The Effort?
These questions were never about tearing down. They are design as a means to build foundation. These are the fundamentals necessary to grow and change into something better. Failure to ask these questions lead to failure in life. Finally, once I have the answers I need, I must take action to ensure this sense of doubt is met and resolved quickly and decisively. Then I must learn and grow from this, lest I repeat the same mistakes that got me here.
What Now?
That's not for me to decide. This isn't the end either, and it's possible I'll come across this moment again. But the decision does need to be met, and soon. Life isn't one for patience, so while patience can be used to better plot a course, it will need to be done within reason. Why? Because time is the one thing you will always lose, along with trust, so get started on fixing these problems NOW before they get out of control. God only knows what happens then...
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